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May 30, 2007

Book Review: Good In Bed by Jennifer Weiner

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  REVIEW: Good in Bed by Jennifer Weiner
Reviewed by Jen Henderson of Dangerously Curvy Novels

Heroine: tall and plump

Spirited entertainment journalist Cannie Shapiro is completely floored when her “ex” boyfriend lands a plum job writing for Moxie magazine, and subsequently uses their former love life as fodder for his new column.  How dare he publicly expound upon his trials and tribulations of “loving a larger woman”?! 

Heartbroken and confused, normally sassy Cannie, who was only looking to take a break from their relationship, finds herself wandering through the achingly familiar territory of abandonment once more.

  What will it take for Cannie’s emotional inner compass to stop spinning in crazy circles and finally point to happiness and true love once again?

What worked for me:

    I thought that this was a delightful peek into the sometimes painful life and mind of a curvy young American woman, who is struggling to remain sane while carrying around a ton of emotional baggage.  Although she was a deeply-flawed character, I felt sympathetic towards her and was glad to see her finally begin to grow by the end of the novel.

      Some other characters worth noting were: Cannie’s divorced-”turned”-lesbian mom, who made a pretty good foil for her angst-ridden daughter by providing an example of a larger woman who’s gotten herself together, and the handsome, helpful doctor from the weight loss clinic who kindly offered Cannie his support when he discovered that she was “C.” from the Moxie articles.   ( I also loved the anecdote about the history of Cannie’s odd little dog and how he got his name.)

      And how refreshing was it that it was the guy who was the inexperienced half of the couple for a change?!

      Size-wise, well… it was hard for me to really picture Cannie.  She described herself as feeling as though she was rather abundant, but then tacked on the fact that she was quite tall and a size 16.  I know that in our society any woman bigger than a single digit size is considered “large”, but I think that a tall, large-framed size 16 woman sounds healthy and lovely, like Valkyrie supermodel and fashion correspondent Emme.

What didn’t work for me:    

     Some folks might find a few plot points in the story to be predictable and perhaps even a little unbelievable. (The Hollywood scenes, for example.)  But it was all right by me.  I enjoy a big-girl-makes-good “comfort” read as much as the next gal.

     Perhaps not everyone will care for Cannie’s constant reflections upon her weight, but her actions and attitudes are typical for a lot of women in Western society, especially when there’s some other emotionally painful situation at hand for them to (not) deal with.  And for those who feel her self-effacing is excessive and merely for the sake of drama, I can honestly say that it is not.   This book just barely scratches the surface of that societal condition known informally as “girl disease”. (This is not to say that men do not experience similar feelings.  They certainly do.  But this particular slang terminology stems from how publicly vocal women are with their feelings about fatness, and eavesdropping in any restaurant, department store fitting room, or public restroom will bear testimony to this fact.)

Overall:

   “Good in Bed” is a witty, bittersweet Singleton faerie-tale that reads quickly but stays with you long after you finish it.

Warning: there is some coarse language, a few steamy scenes, and some discussion of lesbianism in this book.

Special Note:  I’m glad that I have finally read and reviewed this particular book, because it is the one that started my quest for plus-size literature.  I saw a review on it in MODE magazine and found myself wondering if there were more stories of this sort around.  That innocent thought has led me through nearly a year and a half of querying authors, readers, librarians, and publishers. 

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March 19, 2007

Book Review: Love at Large

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Liz Fielding, author of The Bridesmaid’s Reward says:
 ”In turns funny, touching and joyous as the ’stick insects’ meet their match and the big girls get their man.”

Book Review: Love at Large
by Chamein Canton of ElegantPlus.com

Our very own curvy novel reviewer, Jen Henderson, contributes to this delicious romance anthology featuring leading ladies with voluptuous, full-figured curves.

Description:
Love at Large is a courageous book of charming romantic stories; each one a celebration of the lives and loves of full-figured women. It is a book of fiction featuring real women searching for real love and finding that men do indeed send long-stemmed red roses to women with double digit dress sizes.

Within the pages of Love at Large, you will find spunky, attractive, sexy, and smart heroines. These are women who love, are loved, and make love. They are all that and a bag of chips; and they make no apologies for not being the fat-free variety.

The Love at Large Anthology contains six sweet contemporary romance short stories by six terrific authors, plus one bonus story written as a round robin by a variety of writers at the BBW Romance Writing group.  Authors include:  Sue Ann Jaffarian, Judy Bagshaw, Nancy Trausch, Eileen Wilson, and Jennifer Harrington.
Review:
Before I begin this review I must admit that over the years I’ve gotten away from romance novels. I don’t know whether it was the book’s covers or the fact that it seemed to be the same type of woman (with long raven hair, a barely there waistline and enough cleavage to choke grown men). Perhaps it was a combination. Nevertheless I must say my faith in romance has been restored by Love at Large.

The contributing writers including our own Jen Henderson spun tales of love from different perspectives, but what I truly appreciated was how the full figured woman got the guy of her dreams without settling for less. Although their styles were different the reader feels like you’re sitting down with your best girlfriends listening to them regale you with the lush, romantic and sexy details of their love lives without the telltale corn ball I’ve seen in so many other romantic stories. 

With titles like “Love Bytes” by Jen Henderson;  ”The Illustrated Woman” by Elizabeth Angus; “A Work of Art” by Judy Bagshaw, “Dirty Laundry” by Jennifer Harrington; A Change in Direction” by Nancy Trausch; An “Unforgettable Kiss” by Eileen Wilson and “Passion Unmasked” the BBW Romance writers (who contributed a story written by the collective) there is something to suit everyone’s fancy.

They are all wonderful writers and I look forward to seeing more of their work published on a larger scale. Maybe it’s the literary agent in me, but I think these ladies’ stories have Lifetime written all over it! In fact I think these writers have big screen potential to spare.

I give Love At Large ***** (5 stars) Excellent!

For more romance novels featuring plus-size heroines, visit the Elegant Plus Curvy Bookshelf.

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June 15, 2006

Self Esteem and Love, Part I

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Hello Gorgeous: Self Esteem and Love, Part I
by Lisa Klobucar, Regular Contributing Author of Elegant Plus Magazine

Well, “Hello Gorgeous!” and I really do mean that. So it’s been a few months. You have been loving and complimenting yourself in that lovely mirror I suggested you go out and get. You are not only believing you are wonderful, but it’s exuding from your very existence. So what’s next you ask? Well now comes the time to allow others in your world to admire and perhaps love the new inner you. 

Perhaps you have a special someone in your life. Have they noticed a change in you lately? Has that person been a positive influence in making sure your self esteem changes are what you what to see. The people in your life affect who you are and how you act. So if you have a boy/girl friend or family members that are on your butt for everything you do and that input is nothing but negative, then that impact is going to weigh in on you and your self esteem. 

You are making sure your needs are being met. You are providing yourself with the self love and self acceptance you need to be fulfilled. However, let’s face it, we have friends and family members that because things aren’t going well in their lives will try and make you feel bad. And if you are a big girl or guy, you are an easy target for those people. 

So what do you do? You want to let someone in your life that loves and appreciates your big wonderful self. How do you do that? One, know who you are. Know what you like and what you want in a potential mate, significant other. Do not allow someone family or not to enter your life and change you. Be comfortable enough with yourself to put your foot down and say, “hey this is me, love me or leave me and if you go it’s your loss.”

We are all a constant work in progress, growing, maturing and changing all the time. So your needs in a mate/significant other are bound to change as well. It’s recognizing and accepting the changes that signal the signs of maturity and growth. 

Dealing with family that won’t or can’t accept you as you are, what to do?….distance yourself and quickly. Now before you say, “I can’t do that” I am here to say, “Yes you can”. While it is your family, you also deserved to be treated with and talked to in a respectful manner. Your mother comes at you with, “you would be so much cuter if you ____________ (fill in the blank), your brother says, “ya know if you had a better___________(fill in the blank) you would be much happier. Aunt Louise, “have you tried that new diet, I bet it will work for you” STOP, put on the breaks. While these people may love you, they are also hurting you. Why? Because, they can and you let them. Trust me, your mom will stop with the remarks if you don’t let her get to you. The moment she starts in on you, change the subject. Or just tell her that you are hurting my feelings and I don’t like it. Letting people know that they are hurting you is never a bad thing. It’s when you continue to accept the hurt and it begins to manifests itself into something or someone you don’t like. 
 

So here are some tips for letting love in and dealing with family while keeping that growing positive self esteem. 
 

  1. When a family member or significant other says something hurtful or negative, call them on it immediately. Don’t wait or settle for another time, deal with it when it happens.

  1. Realize that some folks are just going to be nasty and negative no matter what role they play in your life. Maybe Aunt Louise is hurting and to take away her hurt she lashes out at you. Well you are no one’s whipping tool. Tell Aunt Louise or anyone that attacks you to get some medication and a 12-step program.

  1. If your mate is constantly berating you, think about it. Would your life be significantly better without this person? What does this person bring to your life that you feel you can’t live without (and no, good sex does NOT count)
  1. When you meet a special someone that you want in your life, show them who you are. Let that someone know they have indeed found a good man/woman. You indeed are a “catch” and should show it.
  1. Above all, believe in yourself you are worth it.

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